I worked on Callie's shape recently to make her fit perfectly into most medium standard sized mesh clothing. You know those pesky notecards that come with mesh items? The sliders that need to be adjusted for mesh are all listed for every size. The trick is to make the most of other sliders to keep that unique shape and still be able to fit into those jeans.
LeLutka - Ariel hair - BlondeFun
Baiastice - Daisy Jeweled One Shoulder Top (at The Dressing Room Blue)
Maitreya - Flare Jeans
Mayfly - Liquid Light Mesh Eye Twilight Sea
League - Zahavi Beaded Hand Bracelet
Beetlebones - Mesh Lashes Dainty brown
Glam Affair - Mia Natural (at Chic2)